"If he was ready, didn't he want it?"
In this story, I think it's more about them actually wanting it, because they like it, not willing because it's their duty. That's why Ria doesn't accept it. Eclot is all about duty, he lives for duty, it's kind of...pathetic and sad...if you think about it, because he only values himself as well as he can perform his duty.
But it's an empty way of living.
Nadricka got to do it because he was very much into it, and Ria was more than happy to oblige.
Even Robia is farther ahead than Eclot, because although he's an emotional b*tch, at least he does things because he wants to, not because he thinks he has to.
We need to have mutual thirst kids.