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@gregger Background checks are to make sure someone can take children in, right? If you know someone for a while, and they're a real stand-up guy who you really admire, I think it can be reasonable to understand why he's giving a childlike Sayu, who's seemingly a victim of her circumstances and her own twisted perspective of self-worth, room to find her bearings and to grow a stable outlook on life again.
He's going along with her wishes of being independent, not handing her to the authorities. It's almost like a young homeless person, in a sense. They may have somewhere to go back to, but really don't want to go back there. Handing her to social aides doesn't necessarily align with what's best for her future, plus she's like 17 you should probably respect her opinion on those matters.
It'd be nice if she could work enough to rent her own house, for a start, maybe start to reconnect with her family down the line. It's something that takes time, you shouldn't punch someone in the face because they're trying to help, while you know nothing of the situation. Sure it could be a hindrance to the child's growth, but if she ran away for good reasons, dragging her back home, letting her in the streets to have sex for shelter, and sending her to a shelter for a whole ass one year before she gets kicked out doesn't seem to be great alternatives either.
I agree with you, though, child abuse is something that makes me furious beyond compare. In this situation, it makes okay sense. If I learned a buddy of mine had sex with a teenager in exchange for food, I'd burn all bridges with em, most likely.
He's going along with her wishes of being independent, not handing her to the authorities. It's almost like a young homeless person, in a sense. They may have somewhere to go back to, but really don't want to go back there. Handing her to social aides doesn't necessarily align with what's best for her future, plus she's like 17 you should probably respect her opinion on those matters.
It'd be nice if she could work enough to rent her own house, for a start, maybe start to reconnect with her family down the line. It's something that takes time, you shouldn't punch someone in the face because they're trying to help, while you know nothing of the situation. Sure it could be a hindrance to the child's growth, but if she ran away for good reasons, dragging her back home, letting her in the streets to have sex for shelter, and sending her to a shelter for a whole ass one year before she gets kicked out doesn't seem to be great alternatives either.
I agree with you, though, child abuse is something that makes me furious beyond compare. In this situation, it makes okay sense. If I learned a buddy of mine had sex with a teenager in exchange for food, I'd burn all bridges with em, most likely.