@Rozoro
There's a lot more to it, and the first chapters can be somewhat misleading. That's something the anime improved by rearranging chapters to make it clearer in the first episode. The conflict isn't meant to be a positive thing.
If you want a spoilery explanation:
There's a lot more to it, and the first chapters can be somewhat misleading. That's something the anime improved by rearranging chapters to make it clearer in the first episode. The conflict isn't meant to be a positive thing.
If you want a spoilery explanation:
The truth is, they don't actually believe in it. It's an excuse- they're both terrified of rejection (and in Shirogane's case, he thinks it's necessary to be Kaguya's equal thanks to the social status gap), and they came up with that nonsense to justify making each other take the initiative without admitting to themselves that they're afraid. That's the real theme, and what they have to accept and overcome.