How the f*** is he a victim??? She just literally didn't care about him.
She was still nice to him and still treated him well. She literally did nothing wrong.
He just had his feelings hurt cause he learned she didn't actually care about him...
But here is the thing.... what did she actually do??? She didn't bully him. She didn't treat him badly.
She actually did nothing wrong to him at all...
So she's right to think he's over reacting...
At worst she called him gross..... yah, that sucks.... but it's not that horrible...
She's horrible because she made a slight insult????
I mean, he really is over reacting. Yah, it sucks to hear your crush thinks you're gross.... but at some point, you got to toughen up....
It's on him that he's being so insulted by ONE SINGLE INSULT that was done behind his back.
She was still nice to him openly, and she treated him well. And she never actually did anything morally wrong to him.
She can't have a single opinion about a person???? Isn't that unreasonable???
Yes, there will be people that don't like you, and they might insult you.... but that's f***ing life...
It's not a big deal.... he really is over reacting.
And in fact, he's a much worse person than she is.
He actually was rude to a girl that honestly just wanted to be friends. He constantly hurt the feelings of another girl who did nothing wrong by calling her a child even though she was obviously uncomfortable.
In the end, he (and everyone else calling her a horrible person) are just way over reacting.
She has nothing to really apologize for.
Yes, he might be traumatized.... but he was traumatized by something that small.... that is 100% on him....
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This reminds me of Luffy and Bellamy.
As a kid who was bullied, I remember fighting back whenever my bullies got physical (exception being female bullies; I just told on them cause I couldn't hit them without being the bad guy).
But one thing I learned from Shanks is that when people insult you, you just got to learn to let it go.
Hell, if they make a single insult, that should not traumatize you. Else that's on you.....
If you aren't tough enough, LEARN to be tough enough....
In the end, she didn't actually do anything worth apologizing for.... or anything worth remembering......
If something that simple traumatized him..... then he has other issues he needs work on....