Seriously Eddy what are you doing? Do you have a plan; do you think she will always just wait for you? Are you so clumsy with your words that you can't even compliment her once?
And Philomena aren't you even going to question him? It was seven years without contact and the first thing he does is insult you to your face and then more years go by without any kind words (but some kind actions?) and you still like him?
If something doesn't happen soon I'll have to just call you both worthless idiots.