literally a college student but it's been a while since i read from the beginnning
Only explanations I can think of would be that at the beginning of the story she's still in her last year of high school (she does seem to mature and age throughout the chapters), the nightmares the father has are of her when she's younger, the coworker's "wall of art" could reasonably have loli in it, or it's just a mis-tagged entry (of which there are many).
You could always report it with "Information to Correct" and provide proof it's a mis-tag.
edit: also what a freaky, scary read.
the complete lack of transparancy regarding the whole affair
This is really the only actual problem in my eyes. The rest of the bullet points are built on user presumptions spawned from that lack of transparency. I can reason away the initial lack of transparency as being due to sheer urgency, but it's a poor decision to try and provide all the requested transparency at once in one big "Wall O' Text." It just takes too long. Though, I think they are too understaffed to provide frequent updates, as well. Bit of a Catch-22.
They should be prioritizing transparency for the most recent removals and then get to the DMCA purge transparency as time allows.
I don't feel owed any transparency outside what titles/chapters were removed (transparency page includes who requested the removal).
@darkdepths I'll respond to you after a while. I don't wanna double post, but there are some explanations (and clarifications on my part) for your concerns.