Mikadono Sanshimai wa Angai, Choroi. - Vol. 8 Ch. 72 - What is a "good partner"? -Sakura's situation-

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What's wrong is not having that person's consent to "protect" them financially and so on. Sakura didn't want that, it seems.
I said I wasn't going to argue, but I don't understand this.
What does consent have to do with this? You think he's going to pay for her stuff against her will? That doesn't make any sense.
He's an asshole, but the stuff about protecting her is him telling her what he would bring to a theoretical relationship, which she has the right to say 'no' to (which she did).
That's what dates are (supposed to be) for. You go out, find out if you're compatible/interested in what the other person has to offer, and take it from there. Consent is something else entirely. He doesn't need permission to be himself, as terrible as that is.
 
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I said I wasn't going to argue, but I don't understand this.
What does consent have to do with this? You think he's going to pay for her stuff against her will? That doesn't make any sense.
He's an asshole, but the stuff about protecting her is him telling her what he would bring to a theoretical relationship, which she has the right to say 'no' to (which she did).
That's what dates are (supposed to be) for. You go out, find out if you're compatible/interested in what the other person has to offer, and take it from there. Consent is something else entirely. He doesn't need permission to be himself, as terrible as that is.
We don't disagree in this. He put it "out there", possibly expecting her acquiescence, and it did NOT come
 
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Don't reply to me, I won't be arguing with people who are wrong.
Man, that's an even bigger red flag than the guy who wanted Sakura to remain in the kitchen, but since I saw you reply later to another post, I believe you simply didn't realize the implications of what you just said.

Now, as far as what we saw in the chapter go, the problem with the guy wasn't so much what he intended to do (everybody should have someone to protect them and/or to protect), but the reasons he gave as to why he wanted to protect her: to him, she was inferior. The guy was mysoginistic not in the "I despise women" but in the "they're just a bit above pets and should behave as such" (not to mention kinda egocentric as in "my shit is fucking golden"); he didn't want to protect Sakura because he liked her, because she was cute or because she needed it (and boy does that absolute dork need it, he was simply stating that, as a female, he could provide for her so she shouldn't be doing anything other than look pretty and care for his needs, hell, she could even go a step beyond and be grateful for his magnanimity, that way she can stop doing pointless stuff like bettering herself, receiving an education or even thinking.

Now, for some, this may actually be a good thing (hell knows I've known my fair share of female Kevins), but for Sakura, someone who prides herself on the sweat and tears she has shed over the years in order to arrive where she has and whose only desire is to become self-sufficient, this goes beyond offensive and goes into personally insulting, made even worse by the fact that the jerk in front of her wasn't even trying to insult her but simply "stating a fact" and "putting her in her place".

It wasn't that he didn't notice her feet being hurt or her being cold because of being unattentive or uncaring, he didn't notice those things because he simply wasn't looking AT Sakura, he didn't care about her as a person, much less care about what she wanted or truly needed.

As for our best-boi fighting her battles... it wasn't so much as having him fight her battles, but more of him being unable to stand it anymore and stepping in to defend his friend's honor, something most of us would have done had we been in his place. Besides, if she had actually fought that battle, she would have likely lost her biggest patron and scared away the remaining ones (sad reality of today, where we have to bend over for absolute idiots simply because they have friends or family in high places).

Simply want to clarify one last thing: You are not wrong in what you wanted to say, you simply weren't looking at the full picture and took it at face value, whereas I had to take into account external output (personal experiences plus random knowledge) and take into account the character's personalities and circumstances.
 
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I know the good looks is the one thing Yuu was said to inherit from his mom but hotdamn this truly be the second time he makes me feel things I shouldn't
 
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Man, that's an even bigger red flag than the guy who wanted Sakura to remain in the kitchen, but since I saw you reply later to another post, I believe you simply didn't realize the implications of what you just said.

Now, as far as what we saw in the chapter go, the problem with the guy wasn't so much what he intended to do (everybody should have someone to protect them and/or to protect), but the reasons he gave as to why he wanted to protect her: to him, she was inferior. The guy was mysoginistic not in the "I despise women" but in the "they're just a bit above pets and should behave as such" (not to mention kinda egocentric as in "my shit is fucking golden"); he didn't want to protect Sakura because he liked her, because she was cute or because she needed it (and boy does that absolute dork need it, he was simply stating that, as a female, he could provide for her so she shouldn't be doing anything other than look pretty and care for his needs, hell, she could even go a step beyond and be grateful for his magnanimity, that way she can stop doing pointless stuff like bettering herself, receiving an education or even thinking.

Now, for some, this may actually be a good thing (hell knows I've known my fair share of female Kevins), but for Sakura, someone who prides herself on the sweat and tears she has shed over the years in order to arrive where she has and whose only desire is to become self-sufficient, this goes beyond offensive and goes into personally insulting, made even worse by the fact that the jerk in front of her wasn't even trying to insult her but simply "stating a fact" and "putting her in her place".

It wasn't that he didn't notice her feet being hurt or her being cold because of being unattentive or uncaring, he didn't notice those things because he simply wasn't looking AT Sakura, he didn't care about her as a person, much less care about what she wanted or truly needed.

As for our best-boi fighting her battles... it wasn't so much as having him fight her battles, but more of him being unable to stand it anymore and stepping in to defend his friend's honor, something most of us would have done had we been in his place. Besides, if she had actually fought that battle, she would have likely lost her biggest patron and scared away the remaining ones (sad reality of today, where we have to bend over for absolute idiots simply because they have friends or family in high places).

Simply want to clarify one last thing: You are not wrong in what you wanted to say, you simply weren't looking at the full picture and took it at face value, whereas I had to take into account external output (personal experiences plus random knowledge) and take into account the character's personalities and circumstances.
You put it nicely. Also to note is that Sakura was always this close to snapping, but she was holding herself back because he was her sponsor's grandson. It was the moment he undermined her efforts and trampled on her pride—and even insulting her best friend Miwa's too, while at that—that she finally snapped. She already stood up slamming the table, she was fully ready to fight her own fight. Yuu just happened to react at the same time.
 
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Why the fuck is he always in a doggystyle position
And he has a pornstar level arched back like he's used to getting his bussy pounded
 
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She's going to win isn't she?? God damn ANY OF the sisters would do I just don't Want her to win the race 😕
 

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