Sankakkei no Kowashi-kata - Vol. 3 Ch. 12

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I get why people would be upset at Koto because of what happened. I just don't agree to statements that accuse her being abusive in her relationship with Aya.
Sure, her finding replacements in the years that followed Aya's disappearance was really f'd up, but that just shows how insecure and fragile she has always been even if she tried to change her image.
We can clearly see how Koto has been holding her emotions in the past chapters, and finally the boiling point is now reached. She surely doesn't mean what she said, she just burst it out after being emotionally triggered.
I agree, and I also agree with this:
If Koto truly is manipulative as you said, she wouldn't talk it out openly.
What Koto said is horrible, but it's probably her emotions got the better of her. Aya has every right to run away at that moment, but after cooling their head off, they should have a talk. If Koto can see her mistake and tries to fix it, then they can go back and see if it works. Aya loves Koto after all, I'd expect her not to leave Koto over a mistake like that.

Of course, it's another story if Koto keeps pulling this shit in later chapters, then Aya is better off with anyone except the dude (Yeah I'm not reading a GL manga for het shit). But at this moment, Koto only acted on her selfish thought once, she deserves a chance to fix her mistake.
 
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Okay folks, you get to decide. This guy's trolling has become too obvious, or they're legitimately insane and probably should not be around other people.
LOL.
You don't really have to quote my post to make your hatred towards me clear.
I'm not obligated to like Erika after all.
And l will keep saying what l want to say.
DGAF whatever you think of me.
At least I'm not insulting users by calling them insane.

This is the first and the last time l replied you.
 
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Alright, then I'll keep laughing whenever you advocate for kidnap and shitting on someone for helping a friend out.
 
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This is exactly why their relationship is a problem. She is literally a child who doesn't have the emotional maturity or life experience to be dating an adult. Full stop.

Aya doesn't owe her anything, and it's genuinely insane to suggest she does. Koto never got closure on their relationship and has stayed unhealthily fixated on it for 7 years, not allowing herself to move on. That's quite obviously the point of the story and why Aya from 7 years ago has reappeared in front of her. That's not even to speak of the suggestion that Aya is in any way at fault for her own disappearance, which is absurd on its face
Yeah.
But if they want to stay in it, no one really has the right to even criticize them.
Above all, it's their life to bear.

And I can't recall l have ever said Aya is at fault for her disappearance.
However, sometimes you have to take the responsibility even though you are not causing the situation on purpose.
She really needs to stop and think why Koto's acting this way.
 
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But if they want to stay in it, no one really has the right to even criticize them.
Above all, it's their life to bear.
No? People are definitely allowed to criticize a grown ass woman for dating a child?? That's like, one of the most justifiable reasons to criticize someone???
And I can't recall l have ever said Aya is at fault for her disappearance.
However, sometimes you have to take the responsibility even though you are not causing the situation on purpose.
This is like saying murder victims should take responsibility for how sad their family members are that they're dead.
She really needs to stop and think why Koto's acting this way.
Koto is acting this way because she refused to let go of her idealized version of a girl she dated in middle school for 7 years.
I cannot stress enough that the story isn't even trying to be subtle about what it's trying to say about the characters.
 
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I feel really bad for Koto. She must be feeling the pressure and fearing losing Aya. Erika is clearly being set up as the betrayer, like Brutus. The hints were already there, but hopefully, she'll regret it right away.
I feel like Erika will end up resolving her inner conflict on her own without showing any of it at some point. Mostly because she thinks too often about her ulterior motives.
 
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I feel like Erika will end up resolving her inner conflict on her own without showing any of it at some point. Mostly because she thinks too often about her ulterior motives.
I would like that, but stories are driven by conflict. So, not so sure. We can only hope.
 
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I really like how this story takes a mature and well-thought-out stance on these people's relationships, portraying realistically how and why an adult dating a child would be messed up.

While I ordinarily enjoy messed up relationships, something like this is obviously no good and I hope Aya and Koto won't end up together (except, maybe only after something like a long time skip or another time slip)
 
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Wow, who could've guessed that the lady who's been desperately caught up in her girlfriend that vanished 7 years ago would be obsessive and controlling. Never would've seen that one coming.
 
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Trauma and paranoia, mixed in together and the result is toxic. I hope those two will find ways to make it work or they'll break up, losing Aya again for good.
 
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i think koto is just traumatized
like
she wants aya so bad
she wants to keep her
just
forever
ive felt just like that
it really hurts
but at the same time you cant live without it
 
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All I am saying is that, nobody reads GL because they want to see one of the female MCs get together with a boy… So my question to why he even reads GL if all he wishes for is one of the female MCs getting with a guy makes sense. He should just go read straight romance if thats what he wishes to see
This is very very late, but nonetheless. I want Aya to end up with the boy to see you guys pissed off. Also, a romantic relationship with either Koto or Erika is not the answer for Aya. She needs to be away from the both of them and the boy just happens to be the only character available (if she gets back into romance). Aya also need interactions with her own peers, which Koto and Erika are not anymore.
 
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This is very very late, but nonetheless. I want Aya to end up with the boy to see you guys pissed off. Also, a romantic relationship with either Koto or Erika is not the answer for Aya. She needs to be away from the both of them and the boy just happens to be the only character available (if she gets back into romance). Aya also need interactions with her own peers, which Koto and Erika are not anymore.
But again 0 reasons to make this a GL if the author was just going to make one of the female MCs get with a boy.
 
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That's just your arbitrary definition of GL, if this was even GL to begin with.
Definition of GL is romantic/sexual relationships between girls, if the author wanted to write a GL they wouldnt make one of the MCs get together with a boy.

Its tagged as a GL but then again so is genderswapped stories when they arent GL at all, so you can never trust tags
 
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This is very very late, but nonetheless. I want Aya to end up with the boy to see you guys pissed off. Also, a romantic relationship with either Koto or Erika is not the answer for Aya. She needs to be away from the both of them and the boy just happens to be the only character available (if she gets back into romance). Aya also need interactions with her own peers, which Koto and Erika are not anymore.
WTH, even that boy is 17 or 18 years old—he still wouldn’t be considered “qualified” to date Aya because of the age gap, at least in the eyes of your typical SJW logic.
And if Aya really wanted to date a boy, she could’ve easily chosen the best one seven years ago. Unlike Erika, there were plenty of boys who wanted to date her in middle school.
 

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