Mah guy... I really respect your desire to take care of her, post care is important and sexy... but she loves you too and i have no doubt she is more than down for it.
Just talk with her see how she prefers, reach an agreement on how you look at it together... that goes for everyone, talk with your partner, it may not always lead to the sexy time but it is better in the long run.
Wait... is that a Hunchback of Notedrame reference? The animated one at least, the Hellfire song that Frollo sings when he is horny for Esmeralda like the sick old cunt he is?