@chaser
thanks for the long answer and My thats long,what i understand is that people learn ethics throughout its life and so people wont need to be teach about it.
Right. Imagine that you were born in a forest with 2 parents, and that the only people you've met or spoken with were your parents. You would learn your ethics through them because they are your only reference points. In a larger community, your ethics are shaped by family and society. You would have two different sets of ethics when living a survivalist life in a forest versus living a communal life in a city. With the internet, being online is like being in a community and your ethics can be shaped through online immersion.
i dont know if you could understand what i am trying to say(with my limited vocabulary) but basically netizen is being unethical is norm and what do you suggest to stop it?
I think I do, hopefully you are able to translate what I mean. I think three things would solve this issue. Moderation, Information, and Separation.
Moderating the general social media to clean the conversation. People choose to immerse themselves in the internet, but there has to be a way to keep the discussion focused. Any forum or media without some form of moderation often devolves into trolling or nonsense. If a party does not have any rules, the house will get trashed.
Informing the netizen seems like it doesn't need to happen, since the internet is a great source of information. Except that is rarely the case. It is easy to go off course from facts when you only talk with people who speculate and theorize. The constant stream of unethical jokes can go from being funny to being serious when people forget that the jokes are just meant to be funny. This is a tricky thing to do when moderation is weak. If moderation is weak, then discussions will separate from being just jokes and be derailed.
Separating people from their deep immersion fixes the problem because it is how the problem came to be in the first place. They immerse themselves in the common culture, or the general social norms, that they were following before being immersed in dirty jokes. A popular saying is "When in Rome, do as the Romans do" or "Adapt to your surroundings". If you want people to become themselves, you have to readapt them to their old surroundings (in the idiom of "when in Rome", you would remove them from Rome. There is no reason to act Roman when you are no longer in Rome).
The largest issue with trying to solve people becoming unethical through online immersion is that people choose to be immersed in those certain communities and choose to be unethical. The most obvious answer is to spend less time online and to spend more time in person with others, but the same problem can arise. The dirty jokes and twisted meanings are everywhere, even among real people. So spending less time online won't necessarily solve the issue if they aren't also given their old reference points.
example would be making dirty jokes using memes in a general social media,try to stop them in comments about how unethical it is ,you see most of the comment would be against you even though you are just,being ethical is being criticize by people who said to be 'people who learn know ethics'
When the norm changes, the conversation changes. Two issues with trying to stop them from being unethical in the comments is that they know that they are joking and/or they don't see themselves as being unethical. If they know that they are joking, then they don't want to be taken seriously and do not want to be corrected. If they do not see themselves as being unethical, then they don't care about being unethical. They think that they are right, even if others view them as wrong.
Sorry again for the length