Dex-chan lover
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- Jan 22, 2018
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@doppler First off I want to say that I don't really have a problem with what you are offering so much as how you are offering it. On that end you will definitely receive thanks and appreciation from me, especially considering that you are going out of your way to post these things when you didn't have to.
That being said attempting to police the Internet before any true complaints or vitriol have been thrown your way is a fools errand and will undoubtedly have the opposite effect. Also please understand that even the most needy and desperate person can and will tell you to shove off if they perceive that the thing that they are being offered is given with some degree of scorn and contempt. For an example I could give money to the poor, but if I do so while also adding, "Get a job you lazy **expletive**" it would not be ungrateful for that person to refuse the money and some might even feel more dignity in eating from the trash than accepting handouts from an individual like that. I get it, really I do, people can be downright nasty and ungrateful on the Internet, and trolls don't make it any easier. That; however, does not change the fact that respect and goodwill are earned, not demanded.
Asking people to not be too negative with in their criticisms as you are posting this with the intent of helping them out will undoubtedly serve you far better than demanding they never issue negative comments or voice their opinions if their opinion isn't perfectly positive. Many people psychologically as a general rule do not respond well to authority, especially not on the internet. Besides if you are genuine in helping people out by helping them get access to lost chapters here they would not have had otherwise without going elsewhere, then you will almost certainly garner enough goodwill to have people in your corner to defend you when and if the haters do come.
That being said attempting to police the Internet before any true complaints or vitriol have been thrown your way is a fools errand and will undoubtedly have the opposite effect. Also please understand that even the most needy and desperate person can and will tell you to shove off if they perceive that the thing that they are being offered is given with some degree of scorn and contempt. For an example I could give money to the poor, but if I do so while also adding, "Get a job you lazy **expletive**" it would not be ungrateful for that person to refuse the money and some might even feel more dignity in eating from the trash than accepting handouts from an individual like that. I get it, really I do, people can be downright nasty and ungrateful on the Internet, and trolls don't make it any easier. That; however, does not change the fact that respect and goodwill are earned, not demanded.
Asking people to not be too negative with in their criticisms as you are posting this with the intent of helping them out will undoubtedly serve you far better than demanding they never issue negative comments or voice their opinions if their opinion isn't perfectly positive. Many people psychologically as a general rule do not respond well to authority, especially not on the internet. Besides if you are genuine in helping people out by helping them get access to lost chapters here they would not have had otherwise without going elsewhere, then you will almost certainly garner enough goodwill to have people in your corner to defend you when and if the haters do come.