People complaining about how they're progressing with their married life. Keep in mind they skipped at least three steps of their relationship progression to get married. They were still on the dating to get to know each other step. They hadn't gotten to the more personal and intimate dates, going over to each other homes and staying for a bit, much less living together. This is amount of progress is good enough as it encourages the two of them to have a healthy outlook of their personal lives together. Understanding and respecting personal boundaries for each other is the key to a long standing healthy relationship