Kanojo, Okarishimasu - Ch. 273 - The Girlfriend and the Birthday Suit

[Buffdoge]

Thank you, I was about to hunt for that chapter specifically. That was just dumpster fire of a chapter.

My pleasure ☺️

 

[Makenai]

Honestly I liked the chapter. This series is not so bad how people make ot out to be. Yes it's moving slowly but that won't change so if you don't like that but still want to follow, then maybe consider waiting some weeks and read a bunch of it. I think this a Bleach case, where reading a volume in one go feels waaay better than a single chapter.

 

[eviljackspicer]

Honestly I liked the chapter. This series is not so bad how people make ot out to be. Yes it's moving slowly but that won't change so if you don't like that but still want to follow, then maybe consider waiting some weeks and read a bunch of it. I think this a Bleach case, where reading a volume in one go feels waaay better than a single chapter.

The binge vs week to week model. You bring a good point. There's another manga I'm reading where something happened and readers flipped and the resolution was like 3 chapters down the line. That could have helped if one were to read all the chapters at once.

 

[MGColin]

Are we getting Isekai too?

damn u. I was gonna make the joke

 

[phantom95]

YassinTheNerd asking the real questions here


Yeah, that's a massive issue that I've had with Kazuya. He's leering at the girl's legs, butts, and breasts when they are talking to him. And when he was "rejected" in an earlier chapter, all he could think about was the girl who rejected him being railed by like 10 other dudes and he flips out. It just makes Kazuya just really shallow as in he's pursuing a relationship for all the wrong reasons.

I do see 218 raised as a point against the series a lot, and I can't blame anyone, but I can offer a bit of a different perspective.

I have generalized anxiety disorder, and what happens to him in that chapter is a negativity spiral. Your brain latches onto one bad thing and then just keeps going with it, deeper and deeper into some delusion which only makes things worse.

When that's happening your brain and body start doing some REALLY weird stuff which most often serves to further amplify the spiral you're in. I've had a VERY similar thing happen when a friend I had feelings for started dating someone else.

It's unpleasant to watch, but it is somewhat realistic.

 

[eviljackspicer]

I do see 218 raised as a point against the series a lot, and I can't blame anyone, but I can offer a bit of a different perspective.

I have generalized anxiety disorder, and what happens to him in that chapter is a negativity spiral. Your brain latches onto one bad thing and then just keeps going with it, deeper and deeper into some delusion which only makes things worse.

When that's happening your brain and body start doing some REALLY weird stuff which most often serves to further amplify the spiral you're in. I've had a VERY similar thing happen when a friend I had feelings for started dating someone else.

It's unpleasant to watch, but it is somewhat realistic.

I get the gist of what you are talking about, as I have had this happen to me (negativity spiral). But let me offer this point from my perspective:
It would be more realistic, if say a negativity spiral were happening in this case where, he is imagining himself chasing after her only for an argument to ensue and the argument gets so bad, things are said that cannot be taken back and the bridges are burned completely. An possible relationship is now impossible in this imagined scenario.

But with this, we are just seeing her in the arms of another guy(s) and being railed by him. From my perspective, the mere fact he cuts to this, makes it looks like her being sexually gratified by another man is completely unacceptable to him and he immediately despairs. It's not the complete and utter breakdown of their relationship. It's this. As if the act of sex with her is the goal being snatched away from him entirely, not the building of the foundation of their relationship. Which, as stated before, makes our MC out to be very very shallow.

Now this scene would be fine if they were both married and his anxiety spiral was him freaking out over the mere thought of her cheating on him, having him jump to this as a possible mental scenario. However, we are not there at that particular situation.

Sorry for the long-ish post. Totally get with what you were saying. Even if I do disagree slightly, I enjoy the conversation

 

[phantom95]

Sorry for the long-ish post. Totally get with what you were saying. Even if I do disagree slightly, I enjoy the conversation

no worries about the post length - my first one was pretty hefty too.

I can definitely see where you're coming from on all that - though I can explain why his negative spiral focused on the sexual aspect.

Going way back to the beginning - his relationship with Mami that kicked off the entire plot. She dumped him because she had "found someone else". That inciting incident not an influential (Albeit not really traumatic) event in his life has colored how he perceives relationships on the whole. He had never dated before and his first girlfriend dumps him after a week to go after another guy.

Not just that but immediately following that they established that Kazuya uses jerking off as a coping mechanism for stress.

If you combine those two elements, his negative spiral focusing on

1: Chizuru going out with somebody else
2: focusing on the sexual aspect

meshes pretty well with his established psychological profile.

 

[Ollie178]

Try reading chapter 218 you will get to know why this manga started getting hate and you may not reconsider rereading this manga

Wow... Dumpster fire indeed! How the hell has it even kept going after this sh*t? Not gonna read it.

 

[eviljackspicer]

Wow... Dumpster fire indeed! How the hell has it even kept going after this sh*t? Not gonna read it.

The comment section is what we all come back for

 

[Buffdoge]

The binge vs week to week model. You bring a good point. There's another manga I'm reading where something happened and readers flipped and the resolution was like 3 chapters down the line. That could have helped if one were to read all the chapters at once.

Could you please provide the source for the manga that you are reading

 

[eviljackspicer]

Could you please provide the source for the manga that you are reading

Oh sorry, it's called "Orenchi ni Kita Onna Kishi to Inakagurashi Surukotoninatta Ken", specifically starting chapter 98/99 where FMC's brother assaults FMC husband, and proceeds to act totally justified in his actions.

 

[Buffdoge]

Oh sorry, it's called "Orenchi ni Kita Onna Kishi to Inakagurashi Surukotoninatta Ken", specifically starting chapter 98/99 where FMC's brother assaults FMC husband, and proceeds to act totally justified in his actions.

Thanks for sharing

 

[fujikawakenji]

"he is real" yeah? whut

 

[ToniToniChopper]

No way Reiji can milk this series for 300 chapters right? There's no way he can come up with more excuses to not develop the characters lmao

 

[eviljackspicer]

No way Reiji can milk this series for 300 chapters right? There's no way he can come up with more excuses to not develop the characters lmao

Manga Cow: PLEASE KILL ME. I CANNOT BE MILKED FURTHER
Reiji: I WILL FIND A WAY

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