Mikadono Sanshimai wa Angai, Choroi. - Ch. 77 - Weapons of war.

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You make it sound like a 5 year old is supposed to know what they want in life. Yuu did what he was told to do to try and make his mother happy, like all kids that age do. It was his mother's responsibility to make a family with him, not the other way around.

Due to the basic abandonment by his mother, he grew to desire a close knit family more than anything else and he has started to get that.

Yuu's next growth arc should be about him confronting his past and realizing he has value as a person, just as much value as the sisters do.

Be nice to see him have some sort of internal confrotation with his mother or to get angry about things but I doubt we will get that.
I guess that's fair but he was shoved into the business world at a very young age and we saw how it affected him and we had like previous chapters of him getting used to his new family

I think he has more love in him right now and he's content with that. But then again, the author cant just create conflict between the sisters and the two rising stars without the link between them.

We might see in the next chapter about Yuu talking to himself not wanting to go because of these two and the sisters will just ask him to support them without knowing why he doesnt want to go.

It's a nice setup I guess
 
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You make it sound like a 5 year old is supposed to know what they want in life. Yuu did what he was told to do to try and make his mother happy, like all kids that age do. It was his mother's responsibility to make a family with him, not the other way around.

Due to the basic abandonment by his mother, he grew to desire a close knit family more than anything else and he has started to get that.

Yuu's next growth arc should be about him confronting his past and realizing he has value as a person, just as much value as the sisters do.

Be nice to see him have some sort of internal confrotation with his mother or to get angry about things but I doubt we will get that.
I 1000% agree with you that it was the mothers responsibility that she should have put in more effort in being a family but I think this is what happened. *I would like to say first though, this is pure speculation and conjuncture on my point so take what I'm about to say with mountains and mountains worth of salt :p *

I look at the mother character as what happens when you strive to be the best and forget about how to live like a ordinary human being. Let me explain with comparing her to the sisters before they met Yuu. Their lives are heavily regulated. Everything is measured by efficiency over all else. Intense work was not only expected, but the bare minimum to be the best. The absolute top is within reach, as long as you put in the time and effort required. Prayer? Luck? Crutches! Taste? Does that affect the number of nutrients? No? Not needed. I might be dramatizing a little, but I don't think by that much haha. In fact, that's probably why they're so bad at regular housekeeping. Why focus on anything that doesn't directly affect their goals?

Things like family? In their eyes, I'm including the mother/sisters/their father in this, it's only natural that they drift apart. Regrettable for sure, but it's the price that you pay sometimes. Yuu has a small conversation with his mom after years of not really talking with one another. The sisters sit down with each other to have a meal for the first time in so long. The father is confronted by his three daughters together(Chapter 55). You notice how shocked they are. But they're ultimately happy about it. They do love each other, but forgot how to be a family.

I think what happened with the mother specifically was that she just didn't know how to fix the relationship once it ultimately fractured then it was too late. Given what I wrote earlier, was there any real shot on working things out? She probably felt like it was her fault ultimately and didn't know how to bridge the gap. She seemed to me awkward when it comes to her son. Like, she's close but misses at the end sometimes ie: chapter 46 pg 5 - 8 and chapter 66 pg 19. She might even had hopes in repairing the bridge in the future. But impending death kinda ruin that shot. Might even put things in perspective. Sure, she would miss acting, but ultimately what she missed most was the opportunity to have a family, like the one she acted in.

Ultimately, I don't absolve her of responsibility or put the fault on Yuu on how they ended up. I just see the context on how it happened. Or really, put a lot of conjecture on my part lol.
 
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Would Yuu even want to go on the trip? He knows the two shitheads are gonna be there.
 
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The guy should become a chef wonder why no one has offered that option to him, that dish looks next level
 
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I 1000% agree with you that it was the mothers responsibility that she should have put in more effort in being a family but I think this is what happened. *I would like to say first though, this is pure speculation and conjuncture on my point so take what I'm about to say with mountains and mountains worth of salt :p *

I look at the mother character as what happens when you strive to be the best and forget about how to live like a ordinary human being. Let me explain with comparing her to the sisters before they met Yuu. Their lives are heavily regulated. Everything is measured by efficiency over all else. Intense work was not only expected, but the bare minimum to be the best. The absolute top is within reach, as long as you put in the time and effort required. Prayer? Luck? Crutches! Taste? Does that affect the number of nutrients? No? Not needed. I might be dramatizing a little, but I don't think by that much haha. In fact, that's probably why they're so bad at regular housekeeping. Why focus on anything that doesn't directly affect their goals?

Things like family? In their eyes, I'm including the mother/sisters/their father in this, it's only natural that they drift apart. Regrettable for sure, but it's the price that you pay sometimes. Yuu has a small conversation with his mom after years of not really talking with one another. The sisters sit down with each other to have a meal for the first time in so long. The father is confronted by his three daughters together(Chapter 55). You notice how shocked they are. But they're ultimately happy about it. They do love each other, but forgot how to be a family.

I think what happened with the mother specifically was that she just didn't know how to fix the relationship once it ultimately fractured then it was too late. Given what I wrote earlier, was there any real shot on working things out? She probably felt like it was her fault ultimately and didn't know how to bridge the gap. She seemed to me awkward when it comes to her son. Like, she's close but misses at the end sometimes ie: chapter 46 pg 5 - 8 and chapter 66 pg 19. She might even had hopes in repairing the bridge in the future. But impending death kinda ruin that shot. Might even put things in perspective. Sure, she would miss acting, but ultimately what she missed most was the opportunity to have a family, like the one she acted in.

Ultimately, I don't absolve her of responsibility or put the fault on Yuu on how they ended up. I just see the context on how it happened. Or really, put a lot of conjecture on my part lol.
I understand the context and agree with you. I just wish someone in story would tell Yuu that she fucked up and that it is okay to be angry. Same for the sisters and their father.
 
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I understand the context and agree with you. I just wish someone in story would tell Yuu that she fucked up and that it is okay to be angry. Same for the sisters and their father.
You can love someone and still be angry at them for their failures; slight resentment and accountability do not equal hatred or forgetting.

That's a very hard thing to realize and even harder to internalize, I am not at all surprised that even the adults haven't told our stepford smiler about that.
 
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Oh he's definitely just avoiding the two pros and ditching the trip on purpose. It's plenty clear circumstances would drag him along and have him face his past anyway though, but I'm looking forward to the specifics.
 
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I hope best girl Sakura goes if he ends up going. If not, this is a good opportunity to have her spend time with him while they're gone.
 

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