@OiGimmeMoreManga
1. her loving him have nothing to do with it being a forced marriage or not. as long as he dont want to marry her it is still a forced marrige FOR HIM even if she would be more then happy to marry him.
2. yes it's still mostly the parents fault. not all mind you but most of it is, but as you seem to disagree with me im going to elaborate.
While he may or may not learn about it being normal, its normality is irrelevant as it was shown that they told his sister about it 10 years ago but never bothered to explain it to him.
Going nope and getting the hell out of there without talking it over is as you say ... not the smartest thing to do. i can agree there.
Especially as just explaining his situation would have been able to call it off as they clearly care about him and the fact he did not want to also goes against the traditions it seems....
But humans are not always logical creatures so i can't really blame him too much.
So yes it was stupid. Still less than not telling your son about his own marriage for 10 years and just hoping it's going to work out despite knowing he is an oddball.
They can assume all they want but the fact they never bothered telling him about his own marrige in over 10 years and just hoped he somehow would learn about marrige rituals is even more illogical then going into a panic and running away.
Also this whole mess was because he realised he was going to be married to his sister so he DID learn about it.
The dad more or less told him to suck it up and deal with it when he expressed his displeasure about it and pressed HIS OWN values onto his son who clearly did not share them.
Just sucks that your son doesn't seem to share your core values that you failed to express to him his entire life right ? oh well sucks to be you son.
He clearly expressed his confusion and disagreement and dad just shut him down hoping that it all work out somehow....
He tried to explain his own reasoning for like a minute and then just left himself when it became clear that his son did not agree with him. not bothering to actually hear him out.
But hey at least the mom realised it might be a bad idea to rush everything.
Just a shame your husband is a even bigger moron then your son and burned the bridges without knowing...
so again, still mostly the parents ( or just the dad really ) fault even if part of the reason everyone assumes they are going to get married is becouse of him.