Uzaki-chan wa Asobitai! - Ch. 106.1 - Kouhai and Determination (Part 1)

[Gadzek]

"Boss, we've got a confession in this week's Nagatoro chapter"
"Shit, gotta one-up this now"

 

[blablablub]

I am confusion.

 

[Blackspace_2]

hope there will be a tag change soon 😏 iykyk

 

[scurrat]

Holy shit. I expected progress but not this much.

 

[Mikyah0409]

Where's my segs scene. I waiting since 5 ch

U want a sec scene in a non porno or erotica type manga? Yeah good luck finding that kind of manga

 

[Makeiks]

wait what!?

 

[conquestking]

Bro. It works for some people and it doesn't for others. Sex is a learning curve.

Agreed, and sex is also a small part of one's overall relationship. Even with a very high drive 90 percent of the time you are just... living life. Working, chores, finances, exercise, hanging out... normal stuff like that. If "you don't sex like a porn star" is enough to ruin a marriage it wasn't a real relationship to begin with.

99/100 times if someone is waiting for marriage to have sex, they are extremely unlikely to actually attempt to research and learn from other people, or experiment and communicate with their partner to get good at it on their own. They will just assume their partner is satisfied because they aren't complaining, and go on with their day. This is not a small sample size or uncommon thing, it's not a mystery or controversial topic, if you hang around with any women that are willing to talk about sex around you, you'd know this is an extremely common complaint. If you're one of the few people that waited, and then actually cared enough about it, your partner, and had the willingness and openness to get good at it after marriage, awesome, you're in an extremely small minority.

And of course it's a learning curve, that's my whole point. It's something you get good at, just like anything else. If you're too scared and puritanical about it that you don't do it until marriage, it's highly likely it's stigmatized so much that you won't be encouraged to actually put in the effort to get skilled at it, even with your marriage partner.

Part of the charm of waiting for marriage is exploring a lot of "firsts" with each other - sure neither of you will work like porn stars but you'll both be on the same playing field and exploring a new world together... something intimae shared with absolutely no one else. What better way to learn about sex and what each other wants when both of you know that it is a learning experience? What you are talking about sounds more like someone with loose morals having their way with a beginner with very little love, and a lot of lust involved.

 

[conquestking]

You are just making shit up to back up coomer lifestyle.

People who are waiting until marriage are significantly less likely to get a divorce

and report higher sexual satisfaction than those who don't:

Nearly 1 in 5 married men and women who have only had sex with their spouse report that they are "very satisfied" with multiple aspects of their sexual relationship in their marriage, compared to 1 in 10 married men and women who are "highly sexually experienced" and have 10+ lifetime sexual partners before marriage.

Great statistics, thanks for sharing!

 

[chusetto]

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[stilgar]

Boy, are you stupid or something?

 

[Ultenth]

You are just making shit up to back up coomer lifestyle.

People who are waiting until marriage are significantly less likely to get a divorce

and report higher sexual satisfaction than those who don't:

Nearly 1 in 5 married men and women who have only had sex with their spouse report that they are "very satisfied" with multiple aspects of their sexual relationship in their marriage, compared to 1 in 10 married men and women who are "highly sexually experienced" and have 10+ lifetime sexual partners before marriage.

Even if that were true, it would be because ignorance is bliss.

Except that chances that I believe a report about it run by a mouthpiece of the Mormon Church about it is 0%. Maybe check your sources next time, and check if the people providing your “evidence” have and credibility first?

 

[Ultenth]

Great statistics, thanks for sharing!

Yeah, let’s just trust stats someone posted without checking who made them and what ulterior motives they might have to manipulate them for their obviously biased goals! Way to trust the internet blindly!

 

[B4z73rd]

I agree with the scanlator on the ending of this chapter.

 

[Ultenth]

Good response. Some of the 'argumentation' on this topic is sad. I doubt it's even projection but other just regurgitating things said by others. Find what your partner likes, repeat. Be open to their suggestions and willing to provide yours and thats all you need. May sleep with 100 people doing 100 different moves first then marry a partner that just really likes whatever this person derides as "Christian sex."

Not like people are entering the sex Olympics and need pornstar level, Kama Sutraish repertoire in order to be sexually fulfilled in a relationship. How many are completely okay with "Vanilla" intercourse and get much more about of simple companionship from holding hands to just knowing someone is there to wake up next to and face the world each day with each other.

On the lack of communication there may be projection there, they surely are not talking about Sakurai and Uzaki. They would talk to eachother or fam/friends who would then prompt them to talk to each other.

I would absolutely love to talk to the partners of you and everyone in this thread that agree’s with you (if any of you have ever actually had any) in a situation where they could be fully honest about how much they are enjoying their sex life. Would be just as funny as my initial suggested joke that you all got so offended by.

 

[darkmatter923]

It would be kinda hilarious if they get married before sex just like a Christian couple, and later find out one of them is irredeemably unfixably terrible in bed and hates sex, and the other has a massive sex drive and is terrific at pleasing their partner. So, just like a lot of Christian couples that never find out if they are sexually compatible before marriage.

Stupid take is stupid.

 

[darkmatter923]

What a chad

 

[darkmatter923]

99/100 times if someone is waiting for marriage to have sex, they are extremely unlikely to actually attempt to research and learn from other people, or experiment and communicate with their partner to get good at it on their own. They will just assume their partner is satisfied because they aren't complaining, and go on with their day. This is not a small sample size or uncommon thing, it's not a mystery or controversial topic, if you hang around with any women that are willing to talk about sex around you, you'd know this is an extremely common complaint. If you're one of the few people that waited, and then actually cared enough about it, your partner, and had the willingness and openness to get good at it after marriage, awesome, you're in an extremely small minority.

And of course it's a learning curve, that's my whole point. It's something you get good at, just like anything else. If you're too scared and puritanical about it that you don't do it until marriage, it's highly likely it's stigmatized so much that you won't be encouraged to actually put in the effort to get skilled at it, even with your marriage partner.

So your solution is to be a wh*re who puts out for anyone who is willing? Get some standards.

 

[Ultenth]

So your solution is to be a wh*re who puts out for anyone who is willing? Get some standards.

Yeah, lets go from one extreme to another you neanderthal. Cus I totally said that a monogamous couple should sleep around with other people before getting married, and not just sleep together to ensure they are on the same page sexually before committing to a life-long commitment. Get some brain cells.

 

[Tarage]

This is the dumbest shit. They've been dating for how long? Just fuck. Marriage should be saved till you have at least been together longer than like... 6 months.

 

[goarachnidlaser]

That poor thirsty girl just wanted to smash, ffs.