Nanjou-san wa Boku ni Dakaretai

[Monn12]

First things first. Comment sections is divided and i'm inclined to go with the majority, she is a "town slut" or a "school slut".
Imagine:
1) Seeing her fucking on your school table
1.1 Offering herself, while the dude who fucked her beforehand runaway without any regard to her (message: he doesn't give a fuck about her)
2) She fucked more than half of the class (conservative evaluation, since it was stated that she fucked almost everyone excluding 2 guys from her class(a rumor)). + It seemed that the guy who ranaway and offered threesome with his friend weren't from her class.
2.1 Dunno about you people, but being in enclosed space with others while knowing that most of the people fucked your girlfriend would feel awkward and cheap. Easy harassment weapon towards you and the girl.
3) She comes from a stable good family if i understand correctly.
4) She passed out for a second while MC and FMC were finally trying to have sex which stopped them from having sex entirely and paused it for unknown time. (Time passed at it doesn't seem that they are planning to move forward, because they need to get used to each other)
4.1 This one here, is the truest "incel" bait. MANY men fear and hate that kind of relationship. When they learn that their gf/wifes had fucked guys the second they saw them and then abstained from them.
4.2 Feels like he friendzoned now......

Now for the counter argument (though weak in my opinion).
It's okay as long as they finish school and she finally understands that this is not okay. School will be over someday and in wider world her body experience will not matter much as long as rumors won't spread. It will be hard but manageable. No school reunions and will need to avoid any interactions with past school mates.
She seems genuinely good and loveable and family oriented.

The problem:
Author pulled an outrageous premise for cheap attention grabbing. (Like the amount of people she fucked is outrageous, could we meet a girl like that in Japan in her 16(10 grade(1st year of highschool)? I really doubt that, rumors would spread fast to school and parents respectively. Even in western countries it's almost impossible to see.

Her later on character and her past(pre high school) do not equate with her behaviour in high school. It's an absolute artificial dramatics.
With current dynamics i feel that author will pull something dirty again. For now we have fluff but with the stunt author pulled in beginning, i'm afraid author will pull it later on also.
This is indeed something akin to cuckolding manga. Whilst no cuckolding happened, you as a reader (males) would be disgusted by this girl with exceptions of cucks and mansluts.

I will continue to read this, but that dirt in first 2 chapters and occasional reminder by author of her past keeps me in state of disgust, negativity and fear of sudden drama.
Author tries to pull that her previous partners don't matter, because she could be fucked by them easily but with MC she was feeling nervous and because of that she suddenly became puritanic (not quite puritanic more like physical rejection of him i guess?)
Like author managed to pull ALMOST EVERYTHING that normally guys fear to find out about their partners and THIS ALMOST EVERYTHING is a major reason guys would decline serious relationship with a girl.
Even the notion she is a slut but my slut doesn't work here since they are stalling with having sex.

FYI: That kind behaviour is usually seen from girls who were raped by fathers and/or abandoned by father. In her case currently it seems she had great relationship with father who even played video games with her.....So author pulled the most unreal actions of a girl, like her life is literal anti-thesis of her high school debut. Great and respectable relationship with father usually serve as a benchmark for future potential mates.
So if later on it will not be revealed that she was molested by her father it would be serve as justification to call this series fake (as in fantasy level of delusion). Also usually prerequisite is not only potential SA from the father but also abandonment, SA forces her to view sex as something easy and cheap while abandonment serves as a mechanism for attention seeking through sex. For example father SAed her and showed love but then stopped SAing her and disappeared or abandoned her, this would send conscious and subconscious message: have sex to retain people around you.

 

[the_reploid]

This manga is not bad. It’s not the best either but it's a decent manga, albeit unrealistic. The comment section is mainly trashing this manga because the fmc was sleeping around before she met the protagonist which I can understand. However, the story itself isn’t as bad as what people are making it seem.

As the story progresses, she’s actually improving from what she once was before meeting him and the protag is also improving himself in his own way. They compliment each other and help one another grow. Hell the focus isn’t on her past that much and not a single guy who had sex with her previously show up. Maybe in the early chapters but it moves on from that rather quickly and becomes wholesome.

To anybody interested in reading this and are currently looking at the comments to gauge how others feel about it, give it a shot yourself. This comment section is divided heavily (reasonably so) and while I understand some readers complaints, it doesn’t take away from the fact that this manga has progressed toward a better direction despite what many say.

I’d suggest giving this manga a shot because despite its premise, the story itself isn’t bad and it’s rather sweet.

 

[iamram3n]

I think it's a very sweet manga about change and moving on and being a better person. To call this simp bait is demeaning and if you wouldn't date someone who has been "ran through" that's fine but I think that the mc is that 1 out of a million people that the fmc needed in her life, and he treates her with the respect she never really had at school. Of course not everyone would be with someone like her that's why she hasn't had any friends all throughout high school, they also don't start dating but it's kind of like a friend stage and they grow on each other which evolves into actual feelings. Of course it's not the greatest of all time and I don't really like the addition of that other girl making a love triangle but I feel that the mmc will make the right choices. I also respect him for being willing to take care of her kid even if it wasn't his because of how much he cares about her. I'd probably give it so far a 7/10.

 

[draxdeveloper]

Ignore the incels rants, this is a good romcom.
My general rule is that if someone based their opinion with the term "body count" them probably it's a bad opinion

 

[HiroZX499]

I been checking out the raw it look like the two of them did it in chapter 21

 

[Monn12]

Ignore the incels rants, this is a good romcom.
My general rule is that if someone based their opinion with the term "body count" them probably it's a bad opinion

Spoiler: Body count and my experience. Not about girls being baddies but about how body count impacts guys also

Body count matters proven case and point. (studies)
I can even state as a guy, after every new dating experience (one night stands to lesser extent) i grew colder and more calculating. I still try to love and respect but novelty of love somehow disappeared.
For example when saying words "I love you", giving gifts, saying something, i get flashbacks about my ex'es (ruins the moment for me, also FMC also had them). We are all unique? No, we are not we have common patterns based on our character. I touch one girl and she hugs me tightly while breathing heavily in my ear but ohh noo i had the same experience with a girl few years ago, great.....

Basically duplication of experience, it is almost the same as working, at first it feels new and fresh then it might get boring since you repeat it everyday then you change jobs and you understand that nothing changed almost. You can even change professions but some patterns stay the same. You lose that purity you had and believe in this puppy love and when that disappears love becomes a "game" of tugging and pulling.
Thankfully at around 25 years i somehow decided to stop this bullshit that was promoted everywhere. Hookup culture is a failed project a true staircase to degeneration.

Look even she while dating him has flashbacks WHICH RUINS HER "HAPPY" moments with him. Author does understand something (more than you apparently). It's a baggage that encumbers you throughout your life and encumbers your every new encounter. Sluts(men and women) at some point feel empty because they experienced all of those encounters many times and it is almost mechanical. You know which buttons to push to make your partner happy, but you are not happy.

Spoiler: Learning your "normal" gf past

But at this stage we aren't even talking about this, dunno if you are a boy or a girl. But for guys living/working/studying in a place with a lot of people who all had sex with your wife/girlfriend is the very disgusting and damaging (ego and social status). Had an experience, i didn't know her body count but my friend remembered my ex.

He was at one party where 2 or 3 guys were fucking her (including him), cheap booze easy girls and etc. The problem was she acted so pure and puritanical during our relationship that it completely ruined it for me. Not to mention the very embarrassment i felt when my friend pulled me in to tell me about her (she wasn't cheating it was prior to our meeting). At the latter date when we broke up he told me even more horrid stories (+photos).

She lied to me, i didn't have any agency to decide if i want to associate with this. Did it ruin my reputation? Not really, because i broke up with her as soon as learned about this (also not a long dating period). But what made feel bad the most was her lies. She acted and told about how she if family oriented, never slept around, had prior 2 long relationships and etc. Only to learn cheap booze was enough to gangbang her (not rape, party girl routine, they get invited to party to a house, no need to pay for anything).

Spoiler: Meeting ex'es and reputation that influences your life

I will even state that meeting my partner's ex'es (without living near them or working with them) would make me uncomfortable (by the way my partners shared the same feelings). Now freaking imagine sitting for 7-9 hours surrounded by people who valued your girl as nothing more than a sex toy. This insane level mental gymnastic

As was stated she fucked with every guy in her class except 2 guys (MC and his friend) + potentially other guys from other classes. Even in adult world everyone would look at you both with ridicule and gossip. You can say who gives a fuck? Everyone gives a fuck especially young people.
Your reputation is a key element for success, bad rumors can make opportunities avoid you or increase other risk factors. If you are known to be a drug abuser in your workplace, you will need worker 2x as more as any other person if you want promotion and even that won't guarantee you this. Women who were sluts are considered cheap, they will have to demand 2x lesser and work 2x more in order to maybe get some respect INITIALLY.

Not to mention if your wife is a known slut you will have to constantly defend her honor or suffer from her past. For example known prostitutes who are in relationship have encounters where guys secretly offer (or openly if they want to humiliate her partner) money for "services". Simple easy girls might get hit on more than other girls which once again creates stress and drama to the partner.

Accountability is the word. Past doesn't matter? It's a fairy tale for people who made gruesome mistakes. Why do people who have good past always boast about their past achievements but when confronted with something dark in their past they try to shove it as past doesn't have any significance. Did i do bad stuff in the past? Yep, still have flashbacks and if confronted would feel down. Would i try to deflect and say it doesn't matter? Yes, but i also try not to boast about my past achievements.