I don't think you would like a clingy emotionally wrecked person. That's not the opposite to anything, what you would find attractive is a reserved(reserved here does not silent or conservative but rather a person who has less costly or numerical hobbies but is more dedicated to the ones they have), highly spoken, upstanding(as in will stand for their loved one not for everyone else without profit) and well put together person(not has to well put according to society but well put according to themselves aka satisfied with themselves).
If you are introverted, you would absolutely not like the person depicted here.
1)She is a spend thrift, very irresponsible with money. Isn't a habitual spender, but would spend a lot when she's depressed which she's gonna be a lot.
2)Will not stand for you in place where you would not bother to stand. Believe me people standing up for you in places where you feel like I can just go through is a necessity for introvert to consider a relation(yes it's that important). Otherwise most introvert doesn't even they need others aside from game/hangout buddies. She won't. She's too busy with her problems and won't even realize when to stand up and no you can't fix her.
3)Being well put together to yourself is 101 in being confident. And being confident is 101 for people who like to talk about what find fun rather than depression talk. If you think you think you would happy in a relation where you constantly consoling the other person, then one you're wrong, two you would break yourself.
If you never been in a relation(romantic kind) before I would suggest thinking that it is no different than any other relation except it becomes your top priority and comes before anything else. Yes even before your reset/planning/me times. Aka if she/he wants to go somewhere, you have to get ready first and think about if and whatnots later.
Now ask yourself would you like a friend that would constantly talk about their life's problem and nag you to see the sht they sent in between games/sessions/round? If your answer is no then it's a no for your romantic relation too. Love won't change you as a person if you are not getting anything from it.
