tbh, these people are dumbf*cks. mostly when they were children, I know this has a very small possibility to be that kind of person but
the people that forced her to take responsibility for other peoples actions are being MAJOR HYPOCRITES. they're say ing "DoNt be SelfISh" EXCUSE ME BUT I THINK HER ACTIONS ARE PRETTY JUSTIFIED. She has major self-control, like if I was her id just tell her in the most polite way to go away so id say
"Rui-chan I know you have the best intentions but please, stay away from me for a little while. Trust me it's not because of you, it's just I need time alone, kay?"
translation
"GET THE F*CK AWAY FROM ME, DO YOU NOT REALIZE IM GETTING HARASSED, 'CAUSE OF YOU!?"
sorry for the rant