I don't mind her appearance either way, since this story is based on the schemes our female lead orchestrates to take her revenge and the spectacle is the great part. Her ungrateful husband totally gets whatever's coming to him.
That said, I do wish she'd not use her special items so much. She's obviously skilled enough to earn them in the first place, so her using items to make things happen kinda takes the drama out of it. Any problem she reaches can be resolved with cheats instead of scheming this way.