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@UnluckyGrape Kids are complicated cause people are complicated. And how you parent matters more for where you are than anything.
Does not spending time with your kid make you a bad parent when you provide everything they need? Does spending time with your kid make you a bad parent if you can't provide for their needs?
And what is right and fair? Are you a bad parent because you spend a lot of time at work? Is that really a fair train of thought?
And everyone had different ideas of what is a good or bad parent. Everyone had a different idea over what should or shouldn't be done.
There were some places I been to where parents showing love and care like in America actually made the kids feel bad cause no other parents did such a thing. But in reverse, if a parent doesn't show affection in a place where parents showing affection is normal, the kids would feel worthless.
Does not spending time with your kid make you a bad parent when you provide everything they need? Does spending time with your kid make you a bad parent if you can't provide for their needs?
And what is right and fair? Are you a bad parent because you spend a lot of time at work? Is that really a fair train of thought?
And everyone had different ideas of what is a good or bad parent. Everyone had a different idea over what should or shouldn't be done.
There were some places I been to where parents showing love and care like in America actually made the kids feel bad cause no other parents did such a thing. But in reverse, if a parent doesn't show affection in a place where parents showing affection is normal, the kids would feel worthless.