like always the grandparents know their shit and also know how to get what they want....also is it me or grandma is kind of lesbo...i mean she wanted iris mama, she couldnt get iris mama so now she goes for iris...wait, is that being lesbo or just overly obssesed with a bloodline?
Honestly, in the novel, this comes across very different.
The author is fond of using 'mine' as in my person, as in someone under my wing/family (family as in both literally and found family).
So, in the novel, contextually, it feels a lot more platonic. As the queen dowager wanted her as a daughter-in-law kinda way(like someone she'd love to dote on, would make beautiful grandchildren and has the charisma of a queen without being malicious), instead of some creepy lesbo kinda way.
This is one of my favourite scenes heck one of my favourite chapters from the novel.I have no idea why the manga made it seem so creepy instead.