I get that it's to have the reader get invested into the hero's revenge but, does every single bloody person in the kingdom need to be an asshole?
Who just starts talking about raping and enjoying it while everyone laughs? I mean honestly.
@Vasqueztion If the princess can openly enjoy such things, the entire system accepts it as at least 'not so bad'. Soldiers are coarse; if everyone is doing it might as well joke about it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯